Donald Miller
DEM Online Coaching Services LLC (Don Miller Coaching)
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Does it feel impossible or confusing to get your dream financial future? Whether you’re trying to destroy debt, pay off your home early, or give more, I can help you create a plan that sets you up to win with money. Will you let me help you?
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My Reason For Being A Financial Coach?
My life started out being part of a divorced family at the age of two; my biological father; was a drunk, a big spender, a drunk, that chased everything, and yes including women! I learned they tried to reconcile, many times, I asked my mom why? She stated if she didn’t go back I probably would have never been born, now that would stop you in your tracks, you never know what the decision one makes with out the rest of the story, like Paul Harvey used to say on the radio.
You are probably wondering where this all going? Well, here it goes, that one thing in my life, many others, changed the way, I viewed the world! From how I interacted, with people, to how I made decisions. I looked at my self, and with my self-talk told myself, my parents got divorced, I will too!
I learned at a very young age, that my perception of divorce was comprised of money fights and money problems, that carried over into all aspects of my life.
- Family- with that perception I was worried more that I was going to screw it up, rather than concentrating on what makes a good marriage and a good family, that will come to your first, when problems arise. So when I changed my perception to looking for the opportunities to go the extra mile, things slowly got better, like dropping a pebble into the water, and watch the ripple affect.
- Spiritual- goes without saying, I started attending men’s groups at church, that filled the void for a while, but something seemed to missing? I know God, the creator of the universe, and a relationship with Jesus, no, I don’t mean posting scriptures on social media, I had to become that person, it has been told in order to become that person, you have to be fully present and active, in other wards, first, rich in the mind, body, and spirit, take ownership of it.
- Financial- I have went all over the place with this one, because of money fights, I would give in and spend too much money(debt). Or I would spend money on things that would not bring us closer to our goal. Since living paycheck to paycheck and praying to make it to payday, by post dating check, later using credit cards as a float to get me there. Because of my current programming about money I had to learn how to properly use money, by changing my perception about money. Money isn’t good or bad it just is, and that money is not the cause of divorce it is the affect.
- Social- same thing, it just is, if you seek a good marriage, it will most likely the average of the five couples, or not married your friends, spiritual same, financial, if you hate your job don’t hang around with people who hate their job. recently lost your job, hang around with people, who are or recently employed, their motivation is up.
- Physical- if you want to get in shape don’t hang around with people who sit on the couch.
- Intellectual- hang around people that are further along and where you want to be, don’t be the smartest person in the room, you will be wasting your time, won’t be listening, you will not be teachable, because you believe that thay have nothing to offer.
- Career- there is a saying love what you do what you love and you will never have to work a day in your life. You might be wondering easier said than done. First, you have a choice of what kind of day you will have, if it is not what you want, you can create your own. It all starts first with giving, looking for the opportunities to go the extra mile.
That is in a nut-shell what I became a financial coach, because I have to know the cause of why I am not successful. By the way my definition of success is my family and friends that are close to me respect me the most. This is my highest priority, in order to do that I have to use money in such a way that attracts and produces that, and it all starts with awareness of who I am as a person and being aware of my strengths and weaknesses, and spending the most time with those that can help me.
I hope this helps,
Don, The Finance Coach
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